Whispering is one of the most powerful tools we have as human beings, and as leaders. A whisper is a powerful form of communication and should never be underestimated. The power of whispering is a lot stronger than yelling!
Whispering is calming. But, in addition, when a person strains to hear what you are saying, the attention is focused on you not on the emotional storm raging inside. When you whisper you automatically slow down the pace of your words so you talk slower as well as softer. This effectively slows down the pace of the conversation.For example, say you are having an argument with someone and somehow its a stale mate with nothing being achieved. If you pull the person off to the side and gently whisper your point of view, or just how much you really appreciate them, it can calm the argument.
How whispering can show its power
- When a person seems embarrassed and is reluctant to talk or answer a question suggest a whisper.
- When co-workers are getting noisy in an argument suggest they whisper to each other for awhile.
- When you need to correct someone in public, because they are getting loud and offensive, get close to the person and whisper, “We don’t use that kind of language in our company.”
- While you’re thinking about whisper power listen to the environment at work. Is everybody talking loud because there is too much background noise? If so find ways to turn down the noise.
These are just a few examples. For effective communication soft is better than loud and slow is better than fast.
Remember. . .
I like the Tibetan proverb: "Goodness speaks in a whisper, evil shouts." Next time you are tempted to shout, remember the power of a whisper.
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